Another day, another year and time just pass by. It’s the same people, same routine and same habits. The days end for the resting ones to begin.
But among all the hustle, the commotion to different places, dealing with responsibilities and surviving the restrictions by the society, do we stop to see if we’re really doing fine?
Are we living the life we want to live? Are we adding value to anyone around us?
It’s hard to ignore the fact that thoughts like these, being the most crucial ones to define the structure of our real purpose or goals, become neglected by the end of the day.
And now that you’re back to being questioned on the real questions, let’s dwell in them and seek answers.
It’s often believed that no human is good or bad, but it’s their habits and circumstances that define their responses to different conditions. And it’s the choices they decide to make in those conditions that differentiate a philanthropist to a culprit in them.
So then, how do you ensure you bring out ‘more of the good in you’?
1. Be vulnerable
Starting with home, you can make it a practice to not suppress your inner voice and express the love and concern you feel for your family.
This helps in not only improving your relations with them but also in getting closer as a team and understanding each other’s needs. We’re always better when we’re loved.
2. Be aware of your surroundings
Remember that you’re not living in an ideal society where everything is flowery and right. People tend to have varied mindsets and preconceived notions on matters, which may create issues.
Be knowledgeable about the ongoings in your neighbourhood, institute or workplace and take a stand for the suppressed.
It can be as basic as asking your siblings if they’re doing okay, helping out your mother at home, helping out a stressed colleague or supporting someone who’s being bullied. Or you can go further and feed the animals and homeless around you and the goodness just doesn’t stop.
3. Be empathetic
“Empathy is understanding their problems and knowing that it’s only luck that separates you from them.”- Unknown
Empathy is something that cannot be taught or instilled, but rather be thought upon and practised. It fuels connection and relates to ‘feeling with people’.
There’s no chance that you don’t see the underprivileged or the injustice around you, but it comes down to you being observant and taking the initiative to sort the issues out.
4. Take actions that actually make a difference
It’s never enough if it isn’t inviting changes. One must know that optimistic views invite contradictions, criticisms and intolerance from the opposite. But in the end, it’s the challenge you’ve taken and you have to get through.
Once a decision is taken, there’s never looking back.
The more you treat it as a responsibility than an option or obligation, the more you enjoy the process of change, the more you spread happiness and the more changes you bring!
5. Being kind is not an option
Let’s encourage the idea of being a human as a human being and be generous and righteous. Let’s set the trend of being the cool that cares.
Be considerate and treat this trait as a strength.
This can be the true way of leading the odds. What sets you apart from other is the degree of how much you’re own self, and there’s kindness in everyone.
If we want to live in a better world, we should be the ones to take the first steps.
The Humanitarian Day revolves less around acknowledging the ones who made a difference, and more about how we can be better every day, for ourselves and for our world.
So now, it’s all up to you: will you be more human every day?
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Vanyashree Chaudhary is a light-hearted Journalism student from Delhi. She’s crazy about her love for graphic designing, Oreo shakes and Daft Punk. Find her the happiest while she’s traveling!